Stories of
A Lifetime

Welcome to So You Thought By Now, a blog dedicated to exploring the gap between our expectations and our reality. In this inaugural post, I set the stage for a series of transparent, faith-based conversations designed to help readers overcome feelings of disappointment, victimization, and regret. Drawing from personal experience and spiritual wisdom, this blog aims to provide practical tools for moving forward—no matter where you find yourself on life’s journey. So let’s get

Let’s go on a deeply personal journey, exploring the theme of unmet expectations—the moments when life doesn’t unfold as we had planned or hoped. Through candid storytelling, this conversation offers a nuanced look at how family, faith, career, and personal identity intersect, and how we can find purpose and peace even when our paths diverge from our original dreams. This blog post breaks down the main themes and actionable insights from the episode, providing a comprehensive